Our mission at Rising Vibe is to support and challenge leadership to have the conversations that matter to enable a high-performance culture. Why is this our mission? Because in our experience the biggest, most detrimental impact on (working) relationships and culture is avoiding the ‘difficult’ conversations. And if leaders aren’t role modeling this in your organisation, chances are no one else will be.
When I was younger, I had to break up with my boyfriend(s) face to face or on the telephone, otherwise they would have turned up on my doorstep. If I was going to be late for anything I had to ring ahead, or have a verbal interaction about my lateness once I arrived. There was no Whatsapp, no email available on my iPhone, no messenger, no texting. I pretty much had no choice but to have the conversation. It was unavoidable. It was unpleasant. But because I had to do it (and I broke up with quite a lot of boyfriends and was late quite a lot of the time!) the conversations became ‘easier’, albeit still very uncomfortable in the moment.
Nowadays there are too many excuses available to avoid the conversation, so they don’t get easier. Not enough time, working remotely (although you didn’t have the conversation before, did you?), don’t know them well enough, haven’t seen them recently, it’s not that serious/bad/detrimental, they are busy and I don’t want to bother them. The list goes on and on and until we are open about our discomfort and continue to make excuses instead, the majority of us won’t know where we stand in our workplace. Knowing where we stand is a basic human need that brings all of us a sense of safety. Safety breeds high performance; innovation, creativity, change, challenge.
Until we start having the conversations that matter, we will continue to talk about someone behind their back when they did something in a meeting that we didn’t appreciate, we will continue to have poor performance in our team (or on a project) because no one is being honest about someone or something being off track and we will continue to create a culture where high performance is therefore stifled.
Performance management, the ED&I agenda and mental health and wellbeing are the 3 areas of conversation avoided the most, and we can help you address these in your organisation.
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Lou Banks
Founder & CEO of Rising Vibe Ltd
With 25 years of experience in operations and business coaching, Lou Banks is Founder and CEO of Rising Vibe Ltd and has developed one mission‚ to support wellbeing and performance by bringing organisational goals and human needs together. It’s about being ok, with not being ok. It’s about building trust within organisations so that we feel safe to share how we really feel. It’s about helping people help themselves. An articulate, high-energy communicator, Lou gets right to the heart of the issue, unafraid to challenge and quick to inspire, challenging mindset to enhance performance.